As we celebrate Full Moon Day today dedicated to Buddha ; three virtues come to mind –
And Let me start with Non Attachment. Having no attachment with desire, people, situations and past or future…leads to erosion of suffering. It never means we can not care and love people…but its done by being Seeer NOT doer. This also leads to us having no expectation from others but only acceptance of universe as it is.
With Non Attachment as virtue, we understand beauty is within . As we go within, connection with inner spirit establishes and peace is natural outcome. Meditation helps a lot in achieving this state. When Peace embraces us we get strong with sense of serving others. Serving makes us Deserving by Universe for we become Giver not Taker.
Compassion develops as an extension of non attachment and peace within. When we have no ego, we receive Greatness. At this state we are seeing other beings and non beings as one and same. We are in Unison with Uni-verse. We feel when some one suffers and we act whenever we can to reduce suffering of others. And this power to feel and contribute comes from our own non attachment as first virtue.
May Buddha be awaken within all of us…for world is in absolute need of compassion and peace.
Never in our life probably we have seen this kind of Global Crisis…Leading to all countries closed for each other and cities closed for each other …Physically.
OPPORTUNITY this is for Transforming as well. Universe is in a process of Transformation, by way of telling its habitat to be mindful of each other.
Each of us has a choice to have our nervous system be stressed with tension which is prevailing OR choose to consider this as one of the Universe process where we are just observer at one level and can heal others at another level.
Being in acceptance of what is…is first step towards transforming our mental state from Tension to Relaxation.
How do we relax in so much uncertainty and challenges and chaos and problems…It is difficult..I agree for all of us. At another level this is the time to show our resilience and inner strength by way of becoming force which is relaxed hence can help others.
Being in Love with Universe and its processes…this change is also a process. If we do not resist, we will embrace this moment…AND when we embrace this moment…we get strength to help others.
UNIVERSE needs many of its being to be a source of strength and be partner in its Journey of Renewal..which is now happening. While we take all precautions and help others …we do biggest service by having peace within and ACCEPTANCE of WHAT IS.
I wish all a great health and safe relaxed being for all.
QUESTION appears Why on Earth? for What? And why NOW?
INDEED this question came about 32 years back as well.. when I was in high school. And 32 years is a very short period for earth …though a significant one for me or any human.
AS I introspect, I see…learning for me are many in this period… Joy of Being Aware, Joy of having a Purpose…Sadness of not able to give 100 percent to many causes and people. Overwhelming thoughts of despair sometimes and being in Gratitude at other times.
BIRTH in a small town in center of India known as Gwalior…And than moving to Bangalore for first Job..and Now working on mission to make 10 Million people happy in coming 9 years…Journey is fascinating and challenging.
I stated seeing each day as New Learning Chapter on this Earth School and Excitement is enormous each day for next day is waited with curiosity. Teacher is different each day and classes are at different places. One day teacher is my colleague and other day is my daughter…one day teacher is my wife and other day is old friend who is now no more!
PLACES are also teacher sometimes as each has its own history and present. Books are teaching me what other have learnt in this school.
AND When we see our life as student on Planet earth…Learning never stops and Death is just last lesson prior to Graduation.
Cherishing each moment and being happy NOW is key to Learn and graduate…Our Consciousness as Parents is Watching our Experience and Learning each day…Love is Language in which our parents speak to their beautiful children..me and you.
I surrender to Universe for every aspect of my life …no matter what it is. Be it Money, Relationship, Career, Friends or ME as a being.
Being a Transmitter from Universe as all of us are, when we qualify our prayers…we do business with God not Prayer. Surrendering fully is Praying for What is Good for all. No Judgement from our intellect or instinct but solely with intuitive connect with Universe.
WITHIN when we close eyes ; We have WORLD of WISDOM…not necessarily when we have Eyes Opened.
Among 7.6 Billion people in this world and many more in other planets …We are in control of nothing but connect to higher forces. As and When we see ourselves as part of bigger plan of Universe…our Plan is no plan…SURRENDER.
Knowing is Feeling and it is Emotional Connect with Thing, Person and Situation we are connected.
Many a Times I wonder after discussion and debate…as to what is missing STILL. With deep reflection, I understood it was my EGO of knowledge which stopped me from Knowing person and having feelings to feel subconscious of person engaged with me.
hEARt is all about EAR i.e. Listening to know and understand not to respond.
Being in Sales myself for many years prior to transitioning as Business Coach and Facilitator, biggest breakthrough was my intention to listen what is not said…AND feel what is unsaid ignoring my knowledge and EGO of having knowledge.
NOW I KNOW despite not having knowledge and its a Bliss to be in state of flow to know and hEAR unsaid.
Be The World without Words! Be The Bliss without Bias and Be YOU when Universe is Within.
The Moment. Are we chasing something or someone which is deviation from The Moment.
Once we realise that we have only this Moment…All would be so clear like a Crystal.
Purpose of You is Being in the Moment. Nowhere Else.
Best Success of You is in This very Moment.
Time is best in this Very Moment.
Few Years back I attended a Seminar and Leader mentioned about Finding your Purpose of Life and with enormous tools to get there ( to purpose) Somehow . AND after all the exercise and wisdom, clarity emerges that It was not to be. As Purpose is not something which you can find.
PURPOSE is lived in the Moment.
So if I am writing this blog, this is My Purpose Now. AND when I am Coaching to entrepreneurs, am in PURPOSE then as well. AND when am in Meditation, am in Purpose that very moment as well. So what is Quest for?
Being Here and Wanting to be there …is a very big trick our Mind plays. For Monkey Mind ( Wandering Mind) illusions seems reality and reality is somewhere else. NOW is what we have …The Moment. Can we be in Purpose and Celebrate what we are NOW.
Explore Excellence Within in this Very Moment…where else can we find ourselves!
Gwalior is known for its Royal Heritage and Spiritual Awakening since centuries in Central India.
1972 March, I was born. Question arises when is the time in my life Journey when I am stronger than ever …when I was Born or Now or in between or in future yet to come?
Me or any of us are most powerful when we are born after 9 months of creation energy. Our Energy is maximum at the time of birth else we could not survive when we were so fragile by body size and activities. Survival Energy is Essence and most powerful energy we all have.
For Me all success and best moments are there when I recognised how powerful I am at birth and merely mention of same takes me to new strength.
All our efforts at young age or post that are nothing when compare to Birth Essence Energy and if we maintain some part of it throughout success and purpose are given to be achieved.
Why someone climbs Mt Everest easily and someone not able to cross-road even? Many of us have forgotten our essence as EGO takes over and Power of Birth takes back seat. As we dissolve our Ego…we become grounded…we become self and we become like Water ….70% of us are Water. And what is a River …always grounded and nourishing all . And if we take power from essence of our nature ….what is IMPOSSIBLE for us. All is Possible.
Awaken to our essence and take back your power.
Yes, I was most powerful in March 1972 when I took birth not after that. This awareness gives me EGO Less sense of self.
We all are bestowed these immense qualities….we forgot or pretend to forget.
EGO-LESS is what comes to mind when I think of ocean. Enough Within but safe all are near its shore.
We are sometimes have ego despite knowing too little. I was reading a poetry where it was mentioned if you put your hand in a Bucket full of water and take it out , water will assume its original shape and quantity in no time. We are like a hand in bucket which can do nothing to even a bucket of water…what to say of Ocean.
But there is another possibility of Becoming an Ocean…an Ocean of Gratitude, Bliss, Beauty, Empathy, Caring, Wisdom and Service.
When we are Ocean ; we are impacted by no one. We just become ego independent and beyond doing…Being one with Universe.
Lets try to be Ocean. Our Original Beautiful Gifted Self.
Kiss, Hug, Embrace your fears to be what you are. simply YOU.
Fears never to be afraid of. Fears is your best Friend and needs love and affection from you. You can not hate Fear because she is closest of Friend. You can not ignore Fear as She us closest of Friend.
Fear of Loss, Insecurity, Relationship, Divorce, Non Directional Kids, Direction Loss, Career Loss, Over Thinking, Procrastination, Business Loss, Failure and Creating Mess. They are Ever Appearing Realities but only till you Fear them.
INVITE your fear to have and sit with you, TALK to her and Embrace her in your life and Most integral part.
See the magic when you have best Friend as Fear and you are blissful.